Monday, April 02, 2007

Daf Yomi - Moed Katan 24 - Highlights

The students were sitting in front of Rav Papa and they said over in the name of Shmuel: A mourner who engages in marital relations during the period of mourning is liable to death (through the hands of Heaven). Rav Papa said: It is forbidden (but he will not be liable to death). Rav Papa continued: If you heard a law regarding mourning in the name of Shmuel, perhaps this is what you heard: A mourner who does not let his hair grow or does not rend his garments is liable to death. (24a)

Rav papa issued various rulings regarding a mourner on Shabbos: A mourner is obligated to uncover the wrappings from his head on Shabbos; he must turn his torn garments to the back; he should turn his bed the right side up on Shabbos (otherwise, these activities would be considered displaying mourning in public and that is prohibited on Shabbos). It is optional for a mourner to adhere to the following prohibitions on Shabbos: wearing leather shoes, engaging in marital relations and washing his hands and feet with hot water (that was heated prior to Shabbos) on Shabbos. Rav said: Uncovering the wrappings from his head is also optional (since others appear in that manner, as well). Shmuel maintains that a mourner must cover his head in the same manner that the Ishmaelites cover their head (and therefore it would be recognizable that he is a mourner). (24a)


Shmuel said: In order to fulfill the obligation of rending his garments, it must be done on the day of the relative’s death.

The Gemora asks on Shmuel by citing certain incidents where we see that an Amora rent his garments many days after the death of his teacher.

The Gemora answers: The death of a teacher is different since every day their teachings are mentioned (the loss is felt every day) and it is considered like the day of the death. (24a)

The Gemora cites a braisa: A mourner displays his rent garment in the front during the shiva period and if he wishes to change his garments, he may do so, but he is required to rend the new garment, as well. On Shabbos, the rent garment should show in the back and if he wants to wear a new garment, he may do so, but he should not rend the new garments.

This braisa is seemingly inconsistent with Shmuel who maintains that the rending must be done on the day of the relative’s death. The Gemora answers: The braisa is referring to the death of a parent, where Shmuel agrees that one can rend his garments even on days after the death.

The Gemora presents a dispute if the garments which were rent to honor his parent (the first day, there is an obligation; afterwards, it is done to honor them) may be sewn together afterwards or not. (24a)

The Mishna had stated: Rabbi Eliezer says: Once the Beis Hamikdosh was destroyed, the festival of Shavuos (which is only one day) has the same halachos as Shabbos (in regards to the days of mourning). Rabban Gamliel says: Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur (even though they are both only for one day) have the same halachos as the other festivals. The Chachamim maintain that Shavuos has the halachos of a festival (since one can offer the festival korbanos for seven days after Shavuos) and Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur have the same halachos as Shabbos.

Rav Gidel the son of Menashye said in the name of Shmuel: The halacha follows the opinion of Rabban Gamliel.

The Gemora cites another version of Rav Gidel the son of Menashye’s statement.

The Gemora presents a dispute among the Tannaim in regards to death of a child.

A baby under 30 days old is carried out for burial in someone's arms (without a bier or coffin). The burial does not require ten men present; it is sufficient with one woman and two men. One man and two women should not bury him (the cemetery was generally outside the city and would be regarded as a forbidden seclusion). Abba Shaul does permit this (they are preoccupied with the mourning and it will not result in sin – Tosfos). They do not form a row to console the mourners; they do not recite the mourners’ blessing and they do not comfort the mourners.

If the child was over thirty days old, he is carried out for burial in a coffin. Rabbi Yehudah says: It should not be a coffin that is carried on the shoulders, but rather, one that is carried in their arms. They form a row to console the mourners; they recite the mourners’ blessing and they comfort the mourners.

If the child was over twelve months old, he is carried out for burial in a bier. Rabbi Akiva maintains that he is carried out for burial with a bier only if he is either actually two years old or developed like a two-year old. Rabbi Shimon ben Elozar says: If the child is carried out for burial in a bier, the people grieve over him; otherwise, they are not required to grieve. Rabbi Elozar ben Azarya says: If the child was known to people in his lifetime, they are required to come to the burial and comfort the father; otherwise, they are not required to get involved.

The braisa continues: When do we eulogize a child? Rabbi Meir said in the name of Rabbi Yishmael: If the deceased child came form a poor family, he is eulogized if he was over three years old. If the deceased child came form a rich family, he is eulogized if he was over five years old. Rabbi Yehudah said in the name of Rabbi Yishmael: If the deceased child came form a poor family, he is eulogized if he was over five years old. If the deceased child came form a rich family, he is eulogized if he was over six years old. The children of the elderly are regarded as children from a poor family.

Rav Gidel the son of Menashye said in the name of Rav: The halacha follows the opinion of Rabbi Yehudah who said in the name of Rabbi Yishmael. (24a – 24b)

Rabbi Anani bar Sasson expounded in front of the house of the Nasi: If one day of mourning was observed prior to Shavuos and then Shavuos passes, it is considered that mourning has been observed for fourteen days.

Rabbi Ami heard of this and he became angry. He said: Is this his own? This was stated by Rabbi Elozar in the name of Rabbi Oshaya.

A similar incident occurred when Rabbi Yitzchak Nafcha expounded in front of the house of the Exilarch and Rav Sheishes heard of this and he became angry. He said: Is this his own? This was stated by Rabbi Elozar in the name of Rabbi Oshaya.

Rabbi Elozar said in the name of Rabbi Oshaya: One is obligated to bring a shelamim offering on the first day of Shavuos (similar to the other festivals). He cites a Scriptural verse that there is a seven day compensation period for anyone that didn’t bring the korban. (24b)

Rav Papa accompanied Rav Avia the elder and expounded: If one day of mourning was observed prior to Rosh Hashanah and then Rosh Hashanah passes, it is considered that mourning has been observed for fourteen days.

Ravina said: Accordingly, one day prior to Sukkos, and then Sukkos and Shmini Atzeres passes, it is considered that mourning has been observed for twenty-one days. (24b)

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

HaggosYosef(Very Abridged Erev Yom Tov)
-Yavetz says Rav Yochnan Never met Shmuel Shmuel lived in Bavel Rav Yochanan In Israel
Keren Orah-Realationsa are Assur even on Shabbos
-Kriyahis Doraisah Hashem told Aharon You don't Rip Everyone else should.
Relations during Aveilus had Pig pull out body by Aiver
Kaddish On Shabbos when there is no Aninus before Kevurah Taz- says say Kaddish Shach-No kaddish before meant to take the Neshomah out of Gehinom not Judged before Burial so no reason to say Kaddish
Why do we Untip the beds on shabbos
it is Btzinah, not really you flip all beds in house,another way to understand btzinah anything that when you look at it is not recognizable that it is for davka Avelius
Minchas Eliezer Points out we do atifas Yishmalie in the morning when putting on our Tallesim and people cover there entire faces this is wrong as the yishmalim do not walk around like that.
Pischei Teshuvah Says Kriyah should be done by somone else do be an embarassment for you Others question that as posuk says dovid did it himself so Chevra kaddisha does a little rip you do the rest
What does Mistalfie Minai Mean?
It says "es Hashem Tirah" es Lrabos Talmidie chachamim so he shows his fear but ripping Kriyah another explanation Shmuel before the death any time he said an halacha was affraid cause meybe he would see and disprove him now he had no one to fear
How can you change Clothes ?
Only if it is very dirty then someone else puts the clothes on first in such a situation you can change.
In the first year after a death can you put on new clothes if you have a child's wedding. This question was asked to the Klausenbereger Rebbe he said why is it for clothes we don't wait until someone says something to you as with a haircut only because new clothes is no exceptional need and now you have a daughters getting married you do have exceptional need so let someone else put on new clothes first and then you can wear them.
Why do we hold like Rav Yochanan he is not the Maikel and this is aveilus? By MAchlokes Achronim the klal according to some don't work
Shavous has Tashlumin therfore some have a minhag not to say tachnun for six days after shavous some hold even if you forgot to say Shehechyanu you can still make it up because of tashlumin
Death of infant or Fetus
-The child is given Bris and name after thirty days(Rosh)
-cannot take out Fetus in coffin because of Chalitzah and people will say she does not need it and no Birchas Tanchumin
(This is very intresting halacha)
what diffrence does it make rich or poor why poor people earlier?
All poor people have is their children,Children make money to bring into house
Children of elders much the same it is a greater tradgey they need the help because of their advanced age and no chance off having more children greater loss

Avromi said...

It's about time - I was looking for you all day - just kidding, thanks a lot and iy"h we will see you on motzei Yom tov - busy week ahead - thanks

chag kosher v'sameach